You see, what I had to remind myself was that what might at first appear as an overwhelming task, or something I couldn't see myself doing, would be resolved by simply taking one step at a time, or one action at a time, over and over again.
Projects, problems, or one's own need to learn a new job or career skill has the same application. Every difficult goal that, at first, may be viewed as an insurmountable obstacle can be resolved when you implement a strategy that requires only one-step at a time. Each action taken moves you forward, continuous progress is seen, and the final goal is closer and closer until it is accomplished. (read the whole story at jensgyrations.blogspot.com)
Those who have a lot to lose get overwhelmed sometimes I think. Thinking of how long it will take at X pounds per month can look discouraging. Al has a good challenge going by having people eat the calories that they will be consuming at their goal weights. The water has to become second nature as does the exercise. The level of eating has to be accepted as a part of life as well. Challengers have to meet a daily goal and that is all that is important. If we drink the water, get in some activity, and stay at or beneath our calorie cap who cares how long it takes? It is easy to look at that calorie limit and think "That's all I get?" when if we would take the time to prepare tasty food with lots of vegetables and fruit for dessert we might think, "I get to eat all that?" I used to fall in a rut by not taking the time to make attractive meals. It was too easy to get out the cottage cheese. I didn't stay with it.
We all know how to eat an elephant - one bite at a time. This works for any task that seems huge. When I mowed yard I would mow off a chunk and when that was done I had reached a goal which made it easier to progress to the next chunk and then the yard was done. I needed to get a pair of slacks done once that I had stopped sewing on but really wanted to wear them. I think they just needed the zipper, waistband, and hemmed. I set the timer on the stove and the deal was I would work on the slacks until the timer went off. It didn't take me long to finish them doing it like that. My students used to tell me about novels they had been assigned to read. I told them to take the total number of pages and divide that by the days they had to get the novel done. They then knew how many pages per day that would get them done with the novel on time. At Weight Watchers my goals were the upper part of the digit, then the lower part of the digit, and then the next lower digit. It helped keep me going.
Let's not look at our total desired weight loss but rather making each day a success. The weight will come off and the goal will be reached one day at a time. Do you have any goals that represent one bite of the elephant at a time?