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Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Tomorrow Never Comes

From Proverbs 31 Ministries:

I didn’t want to do or think about what needed to be done today, so I put it off until tomorrow. Then tomorrow got pushed back until the next tomorrow. When I finally did what I’d put off, I was stressed out, rushed, in a bad mood or convinced I didn’t need to do my task at all. Here are a few of my I’ll do it tomorrow’s:

I’ll start my diet…tomorrow.
I’ll read my Bible and pray…tomorrow.
I’ll clean my house…tomorrow.
I’ll call my friend…tomorrow.
I’ll have lunch with my son…tomorrow.
I’ll take brownies to my neighbor…tomorrow.

Have you ever heard the sad stories of those people who relate how when a loved one left the house to go somewhere and then never returned because of a car accident that took that loved one's life? I think we all have. We evidently think tomorrow is a sure thing.

I’ll spend quality time with my husband or my kids or my friends or my parents…tomorrow.

There was a season of my life I was so bad about putting goals and tasks off until another day that I got behind in everything. I wanted things to change, but my choices didn’t reflect that. Sleeping took precedence over getting up for quiet time. Burgers and fries filled my plate instead of healthy soup and salad. Magazines occupied my hands instead of laundry. Television was preferable to exercise. And time with friends was chosen over time with my husband.

Day after day, I had good intentions to make changes.
Day after day, I put them off until tomorrow.
Eventually, I felt like a failure.

It took a simple sentence from my then three-year-old daughter to move me from apathy to action. A few years ago we planned a family trip to Walt Disney World. I made the mistake of telling Haley Grace months in advance. Each day she’d ask, “Are we going to Disney World today?”

Repeatedly, I’d answer, “Not today. We aren’t going for three more months… five more weeks… eight more days…” The night before we left, I announced the news she’d been waiting for. “Hayley Grace, we are going to Disney World tomorrow!”

The next morning she woke early and ran into my room before I was out of bed. “Mommy, Mommy, is today tomorrow?” I was thrilled to reply, “Yes! Today is tomorrow!”

Things clicked for me and I decided then that I was going to start making today my tomorrow.
Instead of wasting precious time, I started spending it in prayer, asking God to show me what tasks He’d like me to complete that day. I prayed for strength and perseverance to accomplish what He’d given me. And I brought a few friends along with me to be encouraged and to be an encouragement to them in finishing their goals.

I put into action today what I’d been putting off till tomorrow.

What changes, goals, or intentions have you been putting off until tomorrow? Let’s make our “to-do” list our “to-day” list. Not only will we have a sense of accomplishment, but we’ll also make an impact today. Today is tomorrow!

Our "to-do" list becomes our "to-day" list which will become our "to-done" list.

From Melissa Taylor at Proverbs 31 Ministries (with a little extra from me).


  1. As my son gets older, I have learned so much more about seizing the moment today rather than tomorrow.. because where kids are concerned, there really will be a time when there is no tomorrow. They will be saying goodbye and breaking free and all those days you waste not doing something with them until tomorrow are gone.

    In my own personal life, ever since my divorce I have seized more today's and will seize many more this year and next year. It makes for a very good life.

  2. btw, thanks for posting the link to www.questproteinbar.com on Maren blog. I looked up the protein bars and they are amazing. I ordered a few to try out.

  3. Great post. I am so guilty of procrastination. I may have the best of intentions, but often things don't get done that should get done.

  4. Bzybee - make memories with your son - mine are 34 and 32 now and I remember what they looked like when they were brought to me after they were born. Those protein bars are delicious and filling. I have the mixed berry and the peanut butter and jelly right now.

    Paul - thank you. I am guilty of procrastination myself. It is a quality I do not like in myself and must work very hard to avoid it.